Aurelia Ignatio

LUSTLESS

An honest book about love, sex and tenderness. And the small and big lulls in bed

"A warm-hearted, expert look at the great silence in bed - and an invitation to experience love, sex and tenderness in a new way beyond rigid norms"

What if you love your partner - but hardly feel like it anymore? When closeness is nice, but sex has become rare. When fantasies arise that you don't want to confide in anyone. Not even your partner. And when you secretly wonder whether something is wrong with you or your love..

LUSTLOS is an honest book about the things most people keep quiet about in relationships: about lust that disappears, about unequal needs, about shame, pressure, asexuality, affairs, fantasies and the tough feeling of being "somehow not normal".

The author Aurelia Ignatio combines psychological knowledge, research and touching real-life stories and shows that waning desire is rarely a judgment on a relationship - it is often a protective signal. To you and to each other.

This book helps you to understand your own experience, to find words for the unspeakable and to discover ways in which love, tenderness and closeness can continue even if nothing or something completely different happens in bed than in the movies.

An important book that helps you to discover lust as a path to yourself.